Yahrtzeits

Remembering our loved ones is an ancient tradition of our people, and at Etz Hayim we honor all relatives regardless of their religious affiliation.  Members of Etz Hayim Synagogue are encouraged to contact Renee Solomon at yahrtzeit[at]etzhayim.org with the name of your loved one in English and/or Hebrew and the date of death (in English and/or Hebrew).  If the Hebrew date is unknown, we can convert the date for you, provided we know the month, day and year of passing.  You are welcome to include non-Jewish loved ones.  In this case, simply submit the person’s English name and the English date of their passing. 

Yahrtzeit Notifications

Notifications of your loved one's yahrtzeit date will be sent via email.  All Etz Hayim members are eligible for this service, as well as those whose loved one's yahrtzeit plaque is mounted in our sanctuary, or individuals who otherwise support Etz Hayim. 

Recite Kaddish with Us

Your loved one's name will be read during the Shabbat Service nearest the yahrtzeit date. We encourage you to attend and recite Kaddish surrounded by your synagogue family.  If you wish to sponsor an oneg in memory of your loved one, please click here to select the date on our Sign Up Genius.

Free Yahrzeit Candle

Yahrzeit candles are available at the synagogue office for no charge when you present your Yahrzeit letter.  This service is open to Etz Hayim members or to those who have purchased a memorial plaque or have otherwise made a donation in their loved one's name. 

Yahrtzeit Plaques

A memorial board is located in the sanctuary. Individuals who wish to buy plaques to honor their loved one may do so by contacting Al Sandler at ajsandler@comcast.net. The bronze plaques cost $360 for Etz Hayim members and ($720 for non-members) and include the Hebrew and English names as well as the yahrzeit date.  Plaques for non-Jewish loved ones are welcome.  In this case, simply submit the person’s English name and the English date of their passing. 

Making a Donation in Memory of a Loved One

Many individuals like to honor their loved ones by making a contribution to Etz Hayim in their loved one’s name. If you wish to make a donation, please mail your check directly to the synagogue at 1 ½ Hood Road, Derry, NH 03038, or click here to make a donation online.  Please include a note with the donation, "In memory of [Name]."  Your donation will be listed in our monthly newsletter.